You're too slow because by the time you see red flags you've had a relationship with that person.
You connect with the people you love because you hate being alone which is why you ignore the red flags because you don't want to leave.
Initially you will not realize that this person is bad for you because you have trouble seeing their value so you get excited whenever someone shows interest.
You want to be in a good relationship so badly that you'll ignore any red flags to keep your happiness going for as long as possible.
When someone is treating you well and paying attention to you ignore everything else and enjoy that moment.
When you see a red flag you take it as a challenge because you think you can change that person because you love helping and mentoring others.
You're so busy focusing on beauty in other people that red flags don't seem to be such a big deal.
You are flawed so you feel that it would not be appropriate to judge others harshly for their bad habits and behaviors.
You see the potential in others and focus on what their talent is and what they can become.
You're too strict on yourself and blame yourself for their behavior you think you're the problem not them.
Sometimes you mistake toxicity to excitement because you can't stand boring monotonous situations.
You want to make the other person happy so you forget your happiness.